I was thinking about absolute realities of life which I hope most people can agree on. Once they are agreed upon and accepted, it should be possible to develop some guidelines for individual (human) behavior and group (social) behavior. They can also help governments to develop policies conducive to encouragement of stabilizing, helpful behavior of individuals and of groups and organizations and discouragement of harmful and destructive behavior.
Here is a personal view of how we humans are made and behave.
Our body is made with a neural structure primarily to protect
itself and survive.
Therefore, we instinctively are self-centered and tend to
compete.
We are endowed with varying level of intelligence and
abilities.
Therefore, we tend to fall into different strata of the
society.
This is also influenced by the circumstances of our birth,
such as geography, socioeconomic conditions etc. of which we had no control. We
are products of circumstances of birth.
We are also born with certain inherent abilities and
temperaments, strengths, and weaknesses. We come as “a package”.
Given proper external conditions and internal tendencies,
all potentialities can be developed in every individual.
We are males or females, white or black, vegetarians or
non-vegetarians, speak whatever language we speak not by our choice.
But all of us are humans with the same color of the blood,
experience similar vicissitudes in life, deal with same kinds of life’s
dilemmas and face the certainty of death.
“Time is unidirectional” and everything changes over time.
We are bound to find ourselves in different positions of
power and wealth. Physical and economic inequality is inevitable.
Power and wealth tend to corrupt which often operate to
maintain social inequalities.
The powerful will tend to exert their power since basically their
mind is made to be selfish, just as everyone’s.
Acceptance of equality in the Sacredness of Life itself,
human dignity, and respect for every life is the antidote to such corruption.
Since our neural structure is basically made to behave in
selfish mode, and some people will use their position and power to stay in
their position of power and deny freedom to the weaker, there must be social
controls agreed upon by the public.
There is nothing called absolute freedom. My freedom is
always at the expense of lack of freedom for someone else. William Durant pointed
out long ago that freedom and equality do not go together. That is one of the
fundamental lessons of world history.
Societies will have to develop safeguards against excessive
use of power by one group over other by consensus.
Once developed, there must be a mechanism to implement them
with impartiality. There must be some “teeth” to the law.
In addition to a neural organization conducive to survival,
our neural organization is also endowed with capacity to look inwards, understand the world as is and not what we think it is, nurture others and to develop
empathy, compassion, and socialization.
It is possible to learn to actuate our natural abilities
to be compassionate, even if not altruistic.
They must be developed by looking deeply at our inner self with
honesty and humility and at the outer world with open mind, understanding and
compassion. This is spirituality.
A Closing Statement
Dear Friends,
With sincere gratitude to your support and feedbacks, I
wish to sign off today. This will be my farewell to all of you who have been
faithful followers of Time for Thought.
I made this decision to stop writing blogs for a few
reasons. I enter my ninetieth year of life on this wonderful planet, our shared
sacred space. I wish to bid farewell when my body and mind are functioning
well. It is better to go out when one is ahead. I do not wish to leave someone
else to clean up after me by waiting too long. It is also better to “let go” of
things at this stage in life.
I also found
myself rehashing the same ideas in different forms. I have shared already
whatever ideas I wanted to share. There is nothing new I wish to write about. You
might have also noted that a I have made books out of these “blogs” and have
conducted courses based on these “blogs”. There is one more book to come.
I cannot close these “blogs” without remembering Ramaa,
my soulmate who was involved in planning this “blog site”, naming it and
editing one of the initial posts. That was in 2008.
May you be well. May you be safe. May you be free from
suffering.
May you have peace within and harmony with the outside
world.
I close with the following Prayer for Universal Welfare.
(Garuda Purana Uttara khanda chapter 35 Verse 51 is reported to be the source
although I could not verify this source).
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः सर्वे सन्तु निरामयाः
सर्वे भद्राणि पश्यन्तु मा कश्चित् दुह्खवान् भवॆत्
May everyone be well; May everyone be free of ailments;
May everyone be safe; May everyone be free from suffering.
Thank you all. Balu
P.S. Although I will not post any new material, this site will remain open at least till the end of this year.